Cortigiana Onesta

I promised this entry awhile ago, and I apologise for that. I got a lot busier than I expected, which isn’t really a bad thing.

One of the most common questions I get is, “What about your client’s wives?” It’s a very open ended question, isn’t it? What about my clients wives? Well, what about them? Are they blonde, brunette, skinny, fat, nice, mean? No, that’s not what they’re asking, and I know that. They’re talking about the elephant in the room – the fact that these men are married to other women. The thing that is always there, but rarely spoken about.

Sure, there are some businessmen who don’t want a long term relationship or a marriage. White picket fence, wife who won’t even give head, and kids they don’t want. Losing half of a fortune they worked very hard to build doesn’t really strike their fancy. But they’re the minority. The fact of the matter is that yes, most of my clients are married. Some happily, some ambivalently, some miserably.

Some are in happy relationships that have bad sex lives. The wives don’t know or realise this. They think everything is fine and have no idea what the husband is really doing on his lunch break. Some are in happy polyamorous marriages where the wives support or even pay for the providers.  There’s also a percentage that are in happy loving relationships, but due to some sort of physical problem (on her end) there is no sex.

Some are in those relationships of routine. They don’t love their wife, but they don’t hate her either. They get along fine, it’s comfortable enough, and usually “stay together for the kids”. She’s probably fucking someone else, and she probably doesn’t care what he does.

Then there are those who are utterly miserable. And you can really tell which clients those are, they have an air about them. These men seem to feel trapped, sad, lonely. You name it. Some of them love their wives, but the wives no longer love them. Some hate their wives but don’t want to lose everything in a divorce. They don’t want these women to hold their kids hostage as bargaining chips for more money. They want to be around those kids and raise them. These are the men I feel the most sorry for. The men trapped out of fear of loss.

Most of the men don’t talk about their wives, they want to forget about her for a few hours. They wear wedding rings, but a word is never uttered about her. Then there are some who talk lightly about her in a positive manner. Then there are those who vent endlessly. I like to listen. Not because I’m a gossip, but because that’s what I’m there for. If it makes them feel better, I want to do it. My services extend well beyond sexual healing, but emotional, and spiritual as well.

I don’t feel bad about contributing to their adultery. Not one bit. They’re adults who have the freedom to make their own decisions. To weigh the consequences versus the benefits and choose for themselves. I believe in free will and the pursuit of happiness. And if they aren’t happy with their lives, then by all means they should seek out something that does make them happy. And for some, that’s a provider. I don’t see anything wrong with it. They are human beings with the right to choose and it is not my place to judge them for their decisions.