Hobbyists
by Missy on Mar.04, 2009, under Entries
I’ve had a lot of questions lately about hobbyists. Some have asked why I bother to see them, some ask what they are. So I figured I’d talk about them and review boards a bit.
A hobbyist is exactly what it sounds like. It’s a men who sees providers, as a hobby. Another term for this is pooning. And men who poon are pooners. Some hate this term, some embrace it. Personally I prefer the term “hobbyist” to “pooner”.
A lot of providers won’t see hobbyists. They say it makes them feel cheap, it cheapens what they do and provide, the ridicule they receive from the hobbyists on message boards and review sites isn’t worth the money.
Are there some hobbyists that shit all over women for every little flaw, who criticise them on message boards, who degrade them as human beings? Yes. It takes very little searching to find discussion that would sicken you. The way they talk about these women can be horrifying.
But that’s not all hobbyists! Not even close!
The average hobbyist, in my personal experience, is the average guy. They have good hygiene, they make good small talk. They’re there to get down to business, to get what they want how they like it. At the end, they shower, dress, and leave. No ifs, ands, or buts. Clean cut, fun, non-rushed time. I’d liken it to an NSA arrangement with someone you meet at a bar – except without the inebriation and awkwardness.
And I like this, I’m not at all opposed to the get down to business approach. I’m a fan of the afternoon quickie as much as they are. And I’m okay with what may be said on boards or review sites later. I go into the session knowing that, and I am not afraid of what they’ll say. Not one bit. I am more than happy to see hobbyists. I absolutely LOVE to the point encounters some days. If I’m not in the mood, I simply won’t schedule it.