Questions asked by readers
by Missy on Feb.05, 2009, under Entries
If you could send a message to yourself at 18, what would it be?
I would have started doing this full time a lot earlier than I did.
Why did you chose this profession?
I kind of fell into it. I had a friend of a friend who was looking for a girl to spend time with him and possibly sleep with him. The money was good and it involved living abroad. I was basically just to play house and trophy (when out). We had sex maybe 3 times and one blowjob in the entire time I lived there. I took away a nice chunk of cash that enabled me to move out on my own when I came back. I did it one more time with a different person for about 9 months and that was it for awhile. I did some nude modelling after that, and a bit of escorting work with an agency. I worked off and on for a few years before finally realising this is my niche. I am now fully independent and full time.
What are some of the worst sexual fetish you’ve seen?
I think I’ve been really lucky on this front – I’ve never been with anyone that had a ‘bad’ fetish honestly.
Do you ever swallow? Or are you too “high class” for that?
I think if you are going to let a man finish in your mouth, spitting is low class. When a man goes down on a woman does he turn his head and spit every time he gets fluid in his mouth? No? Then I personally feel I should extend the same courtesy to men if I am going to allow them to ejaculate in my mouth. If I had no intent on swallowing, I would simply not allow them to finish in my mouth. So yes, I do swallow when I perform oral sex.
How do you see time?
No differently than I did before. I don’t see time as money except when I’m at work.
How do you hide your business?
I don’t really. I lightly blur my photos for a bit of discretion. My close friends know what I do.
Are you more scared of the police or the IRS?
“Screw everyone but the tax man” Veronica Monet once said. And she’s absolutely right. I pay my taxes quarterly, I have all of the required business licenses. I do not feel it’s ethical to evade taxes. Not to mention that’s federal time.
What are the ‘rules’ you follow, both for your safety and your personal comfort? Do you ever break your rules?
Condoms for vaginal and anal intercourse, every time no compromise. My condoms, my lube for both safety and comfort reasons. I do not ever compromise on any of these rules and I would ask a man to leave with no refund if he ever tried to be forceful on the issue. I reserve the right to refuse service if I feel unsafe.
How much autonomy do you have in selecting clients?
All of it. The beauty of being independent is I can handpick the types of clients I want to see.
What is your relationship with law enforcement? Would you call the police for help if need be, or do you avoid them at all costs?
I would not hesitate to call the police in the event of danger.
How has this job affected your dating and sex life?
It hasn’t. I still have as much sex as I did before in my personal life.
Are you friendly with other escorts, or do you see them as competition?
Friendly.